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Top 5 Lies Girls Tell Guys

liesSometimes, in relationships, both men and women tell little white lies. We think we need to impress or reassure our significant other. The problem is that these lies can shut down communication, cause resentment and confuse both people! Your girl is probably telling one of these top 5 lies right now so read on to find out what she is fibbing about and what to do about it.

1. You’re the Best I Ever Had

The Lie:

Women aren’t lying to be hurtful or deceitful. The male ego is a crazy thing and women learn early on how fragile it can be. What man wants to hear that he is the SECOND best his girl has ever had? Women know that men put a lot of stock in being great in bed and will lie through their teeth to keep their man’s self-esteem high in that area.

What you should do:

Talk about sex with her. Be honest about what you like and always try and please her. Make her feel comfortable. The sex will automatically get better.

 

2. I Love to Cook and Clean

The Lie:

Most women who want to snag a guy and keep him know that men are looking for a nurturer. Call it sexist but most men want a replacement for their mother. A woman who keeps the house tidy, enjoys cooking and is a “Susie Homemaker” type is very attractive to a lot of men. Women may exaggerate their abilities in these areas and even go so far as to pretend to really love cooking dinner and mopping bathrooms.

What you should do:

Don’t leave it all to your lady friend. Cook her a nice meal, clean up after yourself and let her see that you don’t expect her to do everything. That way she will feel more comfortable being honest.

 

3. I Don’t Care about Getting Married

The Lie:

Men are often scared off by women who are too gung-ho about commitment… and women know that! Therefore, they will often act like they don’t care about a commitment either. The truth is, at first they may not care much but as things progress and the relationship becomes more serious a woman mays start to yearn for “something more.” Girls often play down these desires for fear of sending their guy running.

What you should do:

Let her know how you feel. Always be honest. Open communication is key to any relationship so if you are starting to get the sense that she is ready for a commitment you should ask!

 

4. I Love Sports/Action Movies/Video Games

The Lie:

If you meet a woman who is into everything that you are and who seems to be more like a guy than a girl then you may be thinking it is too good to be true. Truth is, it probably is. She is probably just pretending to be the kind of girl she thinks you would want.

What you should do:

Let her know that it is OK to be herself. Show an interest in her interests.

 

5. I Only Take 10 Minutes to Get Ready

The Lie:

Women will try and seem super low-maintenance because men always complain about women who take hours to get ready. The problem is that if you want your lady to look attractive and make an effort for you, it may take more than 10 minutes.

What you should do:

You will figure out pretty quickly if she is lying. It may seem annoying but remember that she is getting ready because she wants to look good for you. See if the two of you can compromise. If it normally takes her an hour and you wish it took her ten minutes then see if you can meet in the middle at a half hour.

 

If your girl tells or has told one or more of these lies that doesn’t mean that your relationship is doomed. It just means that you need to help open up the lines of communication so you two can be honest and forthright with one another. Make her feel that she doesn’t HAVE to lie.