Oh my goodness, there is nothing more exciting and scary than the very first kiss. Women typically luck out because they don’t usually have to go in for the “first kiss.” You, on the other hand, will have to find the right time, place and way to kiss her. You, my friend, bear all of the responsibility.
The most important things to keep in mind when kissing a girl for the first time are to be respectful and to make sure she is comfortable. No woman wants to feel “attacked” with a kiss and the romance of the moment is what she will be excited to tell her friends about the next day.
Although you may not be willing or able to plan out your first kiss you should be aware of her feelings and sensitive to her needs. Don’t be selfish when you kiss her because you will be sending the signal that you may be a selfish lover and that is a huge turn off for ANY woman.
With that said, take a look at these 5 key points and keep them in mind the next time you are considering kissing a girl….
When going in for the kiss, don’t grab, shove or push it. Jamming your tongue in her mouth will probably not get a great response. Just hold her gently, kiss her sweetly and don’t act aggressively or too sexually.
When going in for the kiss, make sure she feels like a princess. The place, the mood, the music, the lighting and so on are all very important. A romantic first kiss just ISN’T going to happen in a smelly pasture, for instance. You can’t control every aspect of the moment but try to create a nice moment that she can look back on fondly.
Women like to be kissed sensually. Touch her arms, her hair or even her back. Stroke her cheek or kiss her neck. You need to be careful not to be overly sexual about it and be sure not to touch parts of her body that she may not want touched.
A woman doesn’t want to be kissed by a man that doesn’t really WANT to. Show her passion and she will feel excited about the kiss as well. A lackluster kiss will give the impression that you don’t find her particularly attractive or sexy.
This has to do with not being too sexual. Women like to be kissed just for the sake of the kiss sometimes. They don’t want to feel like they are being seduced or pushed into anything. If you are gentle, romantic, sensual and passionate then you will probably automatically be respectful. Just remember not to touch her too aggressively or on any body parts that you aren’t SURE she wants touched.
The first kiss is exciting and nerve racking. Sometimes it happens on the first date or without a lot of planning. Other times it is anticipated for a long time or even planned. No matter what the first kiss can really set the tone for a relationship and will always be remembered… so be sure to be gentle, romantic, sensual, passionate and respectful.